Being an Example With Our Opinions

I loved my childhood and even though I have some memories I would very much like to forget; my childhood was great.
I would love nothing more than to share me childhood experiences with my children, however; with the ways of today, electronics, busy schedules and other interference's that I will eventually address, I doubt my children will experience even a small fraction of what I had, and I suppose I pity them just a bit because of it. 

My Family growing up is already so much different then the family I have now. I really have no choice but to embrace the new modern family values of today while keeping the traditions that I grew up with. These Traditions are more then just the activities that kept me busy as a child. Of course, I believe kids should spend more time playing outside and using their imagination then playing video games or watching TV, I believe making wholesome home-cooked meals and instilling good eating habits is a must and also the value of patience with all things. But there are a few other items, a few values I learned as a child that has shaped me into who I am today. 


These values go beyond please and thank you or waiting for someone to finish speaking before speaking. These values that I am referring to include when to voice your opinion and when to let someone also voice theirs  When to debate a topic and when to just let it go and also when to speak your mind no matter how offensive or cruel it may be and when to bite your tongue. I am a firm believer in picking and choosing your battles, not because I may lose a battle, we should all lose a battle now and again, but some battles are just not worth it.
My parents did a very good job teaching me about my opinions and when to share them. At times it came down to my father simply saying "That's enough now." And in a time of social media and comments sections you cannot post a blog or article without starting an argument. There are times I read the comments sections of an opinion piece and I am amazed that I live on the same planet as some of these people let alone in the same country. However; that is what the comments section is for and what social media has become a place for opinions whether called for or not. 

But in honoring the example my parents set for me; in between video games, cell phones, birthday parties and school events, I will teach my children when to make that call. That is what this blog is intended for; opinions on parenting that I believe are worth the arguments they may start or the controversy they may stir up.